How many of you are also empaths/highly sensitive? We are like neon signs to narcs. Ive had multiple narcs in my life from family, lovers to friends to bosses - you? I wondered what is it about me thats attracting that!? And how do I work with my sensitivity and follow the intuition consistently? In answer to that prayer I was guided to the amazing, must-have reference book Women who Love Psychopaths (details what it is about many of us that narcs have the 6th sense for and pursue for NS) - thank you! Also, the work of Dr. Judith Orloff, M.D. Psychiatrist/Empath/Sensitive/Psychic-incredible! Check her out on YouTube. I was blind all the time I was learning to see (the signs). Tonight, a former bestie I reached out to said shes evolved more than me (in the 3 years since we broke up - she went off a handful of times in a verbal abuse assault (I gave her no other choice she said. I responded with there is always a choice-thats on you and I am not to blame for your actions) and I ended our 18 year friendship. She was not like this for the first 16 years. Something changed when she started subscribing to and ingesting this guys metaphysically charged potions - so she will help me and teach and guide me about my life (not be my friend), show me my blind spots, tell me the truth about my life, errors in my thoughts, where Im off mentally and in conversations, why my life/relationships is the way it is, I have no common sense or grasp of boundaries, that her truth about my life will hurt when/if she says it, shes sad to see me suffer because Im at my bottom and being such a victim and everything that comes out of my mouth is lies and we must have a foundation of truth (which is something she says I dont have). Im not lying, suffering, nor am I in victim mentality. I took a stand with her, yet again, and called her out on her grandiosity, arrogance, lack of taking responsibility, blaming, shaming and mean/nastyness. The judgement, projection, attempt to dominate, manipulate and righteousness has my head spin. I told her I have no interest in that kind of relationship. The past narcs helped me evolve and be aware-so now I see her clearly, it was foggy three years ago. Bye Bye Energetic Vampires. This is the practice of healing and SelfLove; being aware of my traits that, gone unchecked/unconscious, are a magnet for low empathetic sorts. This is the evolution in action - this is the gift we received from the Energy Vampires. AWARENESS and intuition, its our power! Relationships are sacred to me. Friendships are deep. People close to me say Im thoughtful, respectful, considerate of others. Growing, evolving and kindness are paramount. Although Ive had challenges with some people - when I look back, every time there was a gut feeling/intuition that I best steer clear. I talked myself out of it, kept an open mind and did not heed the call of divine guidance. Did you have a gut feeling or ignore flags when you first met your narc?
Posted on: Mon, 08 Dec 2014 06:04:12 +0000
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