How to Pay It Forward The world can seem like an unfriendly, threatening place, yet we all want safety, health, and happiness for ourselves and our loved ones. How can one ordinary person—you or me—make a positive difference in this world? One way is the practice paying it forward. While the steps might be simple, the outcome could create a sense of luck and good will that changes the world. 1 Be attentive wherever you are for opportunities to help someone. Perhaps you have an elderly or disabled neighbor who is too proud to ask for help with their yard work or maybe youre in a restaurant and see someone who looks like they could use some kind stranger to pay for their meal. You can change peoples attitudes about the world through your unobtrusive acts of kindness. 2 Do something nice for someone you dont know (or dont know very well). It should be something significant, and not for a person from whom you expect a good deed—or anything at all, for that matter—in return. 3 Spread the word. If the person thanks you and wants to repay you (that is, pay it back), let them know that what youd really like is for them to pay it forward—youd like them to do something nice for three people they dont know, and ask those three people to do something nice for three more people. The idea is to consciously increase the goodness of the world. 4 Pay it forward. When you notice that somebody has done something nice for you, make a note in your mind to practice three acts of kindness towards other people, as described in Step 3. Tips The pay it forward concept was popularized with the book Pay It Forward by Catherine Ryan Hyde, which was later made into a movie with the same title, starring Helen Hunt, Haley Joel Osment, and Kevin Spacey. Even small acts, such as paying the bridge toll for the car behind you when you pay for your own, counts. If it makes the world a friendlier place, you succeeded! Practicing the pay it forward principle will make you alert to unexpected kindness from strangers toward you, and you may find yourself becoming more grateful for everyday kindness and consideration from people you dont even know
Posted on: Sun, 01 Dec 2013 14:54:39 +0000