Howdy friends, Theres been far too much drama & BS going on between my friends here on Facebook as of late & I for one, am beyond disappointed & tired of seeing/hearing about it... Its sad to see so many people whom I care for dearly, get caught up in belittling other people whom I also care for, call each other out & even threaten other people online for the whole world to see... Im not directing this post toward any particular individuals, nor am I concerned with the details of any current drama(please save both of our time & energy)... This post is for each & everyone of us (including myself)& is meant to serve as a friendly reminder in regard to how we can ALL better handle/deal with this kind of drama/shit talk/etc when it rears its ugly head in our lives or when we feel compelled by our own anger to go there ... Lets all make the choice to respond to difficult situations rather than react to them my friends... Make the choice to take the time to think to ourselves, Will what Im about to say or do serve to help & or improve this situation/whats going on around me, or simply throw more gas onto an already raging fire/complicate things?... When we throw anger, frustration or impatience back at those who bring these same feelings/actions our way, we sadly, despite who one ups who, or whose ego prevails, only end up with more of the same... These types of heated disagreements/conflicts only take place on an egoic level of consciousness anyway, as the heart only knows how to love & forgive... It is the egoic level of our minds, (not our hearts) that holds grudges or feels compelled to argue/fight to prove whose right... It takes someone with enough patience, courage, strength & wisdom to go deeper, to the heart level, & choose NOT to insult/hate/punch/kill back at the other attacking party... This is the only truly effective way to stop disagreements, fights, wars, grudges etc. from raging on & on & on... When we choose to live this way, we soon find that we have no time, energy or interest in participating in conflicts of any kind... Were simply too busy letting love, kindness & happiness lead the way in our lives to get caught up in anything else... Sure, Im going to try & help inspire myself & those around me to take the higher & mutually beneficial road whenever I can, but I refuse to get caught up in the he said/she said volatility of that kind of thing anymore... I cant & I hope you realize how important it is not to get caught up in it on your end also My Friends... If we dont learn to make this important choice in life, we will someday be doomed as a species when enough of us collectively buy into that one disagreement/war that ends up being too grand for the entire human race to survive... I love all of you & hope well all make the effort to help putting conflicts out, rather than throwing gas on them & better yet, making the choice to avoid starting them in the first place... Even if this simply means to at times ignore them as they are raging on around us
Posted on: Fri, 26 Sep 2014 02:12:33 +0000