I am a 22 year old mother of a beautiful girl who I love with every fibre of my being. My story is this. The day i broke the news to my bf(now ex) that i was pregnant he left me for another girl and was not there for me. As time went on i learnt to accept his new relationship but i made him promise me that he will always be there for his child which at the time he agreed. Well its been two years and this man has made no effort to be there for his child. I dont know what to do anymore coz i have a very clever child and she always asks me where her daddy is coz i always tell her bout him. He now has another child who he spends every minute of every day with but he cant even spend ten minutes with our child. I told him.that he should stop making "vis and vleis"with his kids coz my daughter also needs a father and y should another man b a father to her wen she has one. I have begged this man so many times but he just shows no interest in our dauhgters life. I need to know how do i tell my daughter that her own father does not care about her and how do i do that without hurting her coz i made a promise to myself that i will never hurt her in any way. I am so confused and afraid coz i dnt want my child to grow up hating her dad but how can i prevent it from happening when he has made it clear so many times that he wants nothing to do with her. Coz him and his gf even refers to my child as a mistake and a burden.... HOW DO I FIX THIS HORRIBLE MESS?
Posted on: Wed, 19 Jun 2013 20:50:48 +0000