I am often asked, how do you move on from issues so quickly, i guess the real question is how do i forgive so quickly....ithi ndiniphe intluva about how i look at forgiveness!!! I dont confuse forgiving with forgetting. Forgiveness for me is a path to repositioning myself after being hurt or dissapointed. You dont have to forget IT, in order to forgive IT. Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself, its not meant to exalarate the perpetrator, it does not mean they were not wrong, it just means I am not going to be tied to that THING they did to me for the rest of my life. Moping around in anger or bitter would mean they GOT me, well they dont, i take may power back by saying I am hurt but i am cool with the way things are, and depending on who you are in my life, our journey together can end here and now, or we can heal together with you knowing i did not forget what you did but its not worth stealing my joy and peace....hence i chose to forgive you. I exhale and move on....hope you got it now!!!
Posted on: Mon, 20 Oct 2014 08:39:02 +0000
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