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I appreciate the value of looking at the question of whether my judgments about another are a reflection of parts of me that I don’t like and that I want to deny. Sometimes they are. At the same time, lets not throw reality out with the bath water. Sometimes our judgments are actually reflections of a conscious discernment process- we dislike certain qualities, actions, an absence of integrity- for legitimate reasons. The “mirror defense” (your reaction to another is merely a reflection back to you) was likely invented by gurus who wanted to get away with inappropriate behavior. There is a meaningful difference between unconscious judgments and conscious discernment. Not everything is a projection. Sometimes we are seeing things exactly as they are.
Posted on: Thu, 27 Nov 2014 19:51:16 +0000

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