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I appreciate the value of looking at the question of whether my judgments about another are a reflection of parts of me that I dont like or that I want to deny. Sometimes they are. At the same time, lets not throw reality out with the bath water. Sometimes our judgments are actually reflections of a conscious discernment process ~ we dislike certain qualities, actions, an absence of integrity ~ for legitimate reasons. The mirror defense (ie your reaction to another is merely a reflection back to you of your own stuff) was most likely invented by gurus who wanted to get away with inappropriate behaviour. There IS a meaningful difference between unconscious judgments and conscious discernment. Not everything is a projection. Sometimes we ARE seeing things exactly as they are! ~ Jeff Brown ~ Yet again this man calls it as it is. AHO!
Posted on: Fri, 28 Nov 2014 04:53:36 +0000

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