I did a little SOCIAL BEHAVIOR TEST yesterday... here are the results: I talk a lot about how you should only be able to count your closest friends on ONE hand. So, yesterday I invited 5 specific people over to my place to hang out, eat, drink, talk shop, etc. We all work together and have the same two days off. I made sure to tell them exactly who else I invited (this is a part of the test). This was to make sure they all ended up with intent to come. Everyone of them said they were wanting to come over, they all asked what time?... I went through the hoops of calling/texting everyone to arrange a time that works for everyone. So, we all settled on 8pm. I cleaned the crib... started cooking some food, etc. Heres the outcome... Not ONE of them showed up. I didnt get a text or a call from anyone saying they couldnt make it. I tried to call them a couple of times and got NO answers except for one guy that was at the bar. He said hed be about 30 minutes. An hour later he hit me up to see if anyone ELSE had showed up yet. My answer is NO of course. That was the last I heard from him. In the meantime, im getting hit up here and there from a couple of people asking if the others were here yet. So that tells me that they arent interested in hanging with ME... but only if I could build a group. So whatever, at least I get it. There was a girl that was ONLY interested in coming if everyone else was here... same with one of the other guys. He and the girl were in touch with each other, trying to confirm that each other would be there. At this time its really late(around 11pm) So she backs out (she DID tell me that she wasnt coming)... therefore, he doesnt show up. As a matter of fact, one dude took my $ yesterday to bring me back something I needed. I didnt even get THAT. Im in bed by midnight, wake up this morning... theres no Hey, dude... sorry for leaving ya hanging last night. And Ill bet my last dollar that I wont hear anything like it for the rest of the day either. The lesson: Well, there are many. Im not gonna extend this status post any longer because Im sure youre already thinkin about the lessons I just learned. If only ONE or TWO of those 5 had showed up... I believe they all would have. Funny thing is... one of the guys was ON HIS WAYYYYY and didnt show up when the girl said she wasnt coming!! He straight up turned his ass around and went home! With that being said... keep your closet friends on one hand. Ill never invite any of them over again because the test failed. The people I tried to make friends with... dont care to be my friend. If you already have up to 5 of them... keep it at that. My number is 3. I only have three best friends that I can trust to treat me the same as I do them. Id die for these dudes. I love them like family. We call each other, we help each other, we visit each other, etc. Not everyday... we all have our own lives to lives... but we make the effort. Im okay with all of this. I like to analyze people... this was only a test to see if these guys are trying to be my friends. Evidentally theyre not... or its too soon. Ive only been here a month. There are variables. However... I dont trust any of them either. They failed the test. Never want people that dont want you... and that will be my bottom line.
Posted on: Thu, 03 Apr 2014 14:02:13 +0000
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