I did an interview once and one of the questions was: have you ever been upset about someone not admitting their emotions or feelings for you? My answer: No, I have not been. I dont think Ill start either. I am responsible for my own emotions, I cannot make someone admit the way they feel, thats not my responsibility. Is it the right thing to do? According to some, yes, but I think a bit differently. Id honestly be more upset with myself if I did not tell someone how I felt about them. Yes, it was scary for me to do, but I always felt better. As long as I do my part, thats what matters to me. Moreover, people should understand that emotions can be very overpowering and overwhelming and they can consume you if you do not release them, or know how to stabilize them. A lot of people are just not good at doing that and thats ok because most were not taught to do this. Most feel weak and vulnerable and they do not like the feeling. Its fear. Theyll come into their own eventually, and if they dont, well, I think theyll get tired of losing people they really want in their lives. My best advice: Release and stabilize your emotions, so that youre able to live an emotionally healthy life. If you dont know how, then their are several counselors in the area that are wonderful at helping you focus on yourself and your emotions. Stop losing people because youre afraid of feeling weak and vulnerable. Always been an extremely wise and honest owl to my peers and others. As I get older, I get wiser. Thats the god honest truth. I no longer worry about wholl love me, itll happen when its time. I never force anything.
Posted on: Thu, 10 Jul 2014 11:21:43 +0000