I did not write this, it is, however, a good read. Tip for men #91: If you arent the first choice, don’t be a choice. So this is a multidimensional tip that can find application to all levels of your social and perhaps your professional life – but this is mostly about your interaction with women. Whomever you are, make sure that you choose to associate with people that consider you an important part of their lives and everyday routine. Do not accept behaviors that lessen you, if a woman likes you, she needs to also show it to you, and words never equal actions! The most common phenomenon boys, is to stay on words. Unfortunately, the biggest statements and declarations are usually are the ones that never materialize. It is very common that a woman always ignore you (by not answering her phone, being late, avoiding to spent any time with you to do other activities etc) and you to be running after her. Don’t do it! She just doesnt want you, you are just a toy so she can spend her time until someone truly compatible (to her mind) comes along and then she will stop paying attention to you altogether. Obviously people do need their space and their alone time, however they should also want you. How many times you have texted/called someone and you haven’t gotten an answer while you know she messaged someone else or you see her commenting on Facebook? I have news for you: SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU! Fooling around is obviously more important than the 10 seconds needed to call you on the phone and say “can’t talk now, will call you/text you later”. What should you do? Nothing, nothing at all! Stop spending time on people who dont deserve it! You dont need an explanation (because there are always excuses for everything). They will try to make you appear crazy and tell you 1000 different things to convince you on how it’s not the case. Do what theyre doing to you and stop wasting your time on them ... permanently! Find a girl for which you will be the first choice ... and not the 5th one after other people and the likes and comments on Facebook. NEVER ASK FOR WHAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN GRANTED. On the other hand of course, you should do the same! Your buddies and football should not be your first option! When you truly want a woman you need to be present in every ways (... that includes sending flowers asshole!), and not only when you want to get laid or when there’s no game on TV. I often say the same to women ... a man that will not change his plans of a night out to meet with you, doesnt deserve you!” This is a two way street boys and girls!
Posted on: Mon, 15 Sep 2014 01:19:11 +0000
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