I dont normally do my own posts in regards to fm but reply pretty regularly to other peoples questions and thoughts. Anyway the last few days I have been doing well and today I decided to take some positive action for myself and wanted to share the great feeling I have in the hope of helping those who are not feeling so great today. Long story short I have known someone for years who has come in and out of my life and in the end I got to the point where I realised not only was he toxic for me but he had to go as I was never going to progress with him in my life. No he was not a boyfriend but I have the scars of his toxicity like he was. Anyway a few months ago due to his irresponsibility he needed somewhere to live and being the kind of person I am rather than leave him on the street I agreed to let him stay with me. Eventually he found his own place but some of his stuff stayed here and despite many promises from him to pick it up but he never did. Today I decided that it was the day to get as much of his clutter out of my house as I could fit in my car (Hyundai Getz) and take it to his new place so it was gone. He can think himself fortunate I did that as I was so tempted to just dump it but I guess I am still too nice in some ways. I tell you while it hurts that our friendship is over (as there were good times) I feel so much better and lighter due to his junk being out of my house. Yes I hurt because it was a lot of work but it is definitely worth it!
Posted on: Fri, 17 Oct 2014 05:52:04 +0000
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