I dont usually post stuff like this, but its really been weighing on my heart for almost a week now, so something tells me someone needs to hear it, or I just need to say it and get it out there! Some people come into our lives and go quickly. As much as it hurts to see them go, there time with you is done. You may not know right now why they were put in your life, but they served their purpose and that phase of life is over. You dont have to forget it, or them. You just have to learn to let go. Some people come into our lives and are there for a while, they leave footprints, we share memories, laughs, tears, maybe even YEARS with them. And then for some reason, they are just gone. And even though we may let go of the situation over time, we still hold very dear the memories that was made with them. And will never completely be able to let go. Then, there are people who are in our life, forever. Or we think they will be, and in one way or another they really are. We would do anything for them, we bend over backwards to be there when they need a shoulder to cry on, someone who listens to all their deep dark secrets and we dont judge them, we just love them through it. Our life just becomes patterned to them being in it. You cant even imagine a day without them. You have good days and bad days have went through tough trials and wonderful times but when it comes down to it, you can count on each other. That is a lifetime relationship, cause once you build a relationship with a person like this in your heart it never ends. BUT, and this is a very sad but, sometimes those people change. You walk past them one day, and your simple smile and their awkward smile meet and you realize you dont even know who that person is anymore. You have lost, the one person who your life has been accustomed to them being in it. Now I dont know if you have ever experienced the loss of a relationship, no matter what kind it is, like this. But watching someone who has became a natural fixture in your life that you have gave so much of yourself too, you have experienced so much life with them and they are eating, breathing, living, smiling...and you have became nothing to them. Is one of the most painful things, you may experience. In that darkness, remember that life will go on. You maybe a changed person forever but no matter what road has led you down that dark trail, there will be light again. And you maybe changed, but you will move on. You will carry scars forever, but you too will smile again. You too, can make a change and continue on to a happy life. I pray for anyone, who has ever experienced this. May you put your faith and trust in God, to mend your scars so you may live life for you. There will come a time in your life when you realize that if you stand still, you will remain at that point forever. If you fall and stay down, life will just pass you by. I encourage you to know your worth, no matter your path. You can BE MORE!
Posted on: Tue, 13 Jan 2015 02:17:10 +0000