I feel like Facebook is one of the most common mediums of communication these days. However mostly superficial… I included, enjoy seeing deep or thought provoking posts. Most people go to meetings, write articles, books, etc. to share. Why do we share? I think it’s because of this beautiful thing we “share” as humans. What ever it is that connects us also brings us joy from hearing the thoughts of those we respect, the feedback, or their point of view. I think our need for sharing starts with our insatiable thirst for knowledge and life experience. Why do we have this, how does it benefit us? Let’s get deep! I believe it’s because we want to constantly evolve and better our selves and our loves ones. As a part of human nature, we then we teach our children what we have learned through our lives. Hoping they retain some of the knowledge we gained ourselves. In hopes that they go out and live their lives, learn from their experiences, and hopefully make the world a better place because of the knowledge we passed along. Our reward, being able to watch them grow up and my only hope it’s with my best friend. I’m 34 now and have never been married. I made a promise to myself at an early age that I was only going to be married once in my life! This is something no man in my bloodline has been able to accomplish in recent history. ☺ I’m sure there are good things that come from 2 or 3 marriages, like kids. I just plan on taking a different path. Even thought I am a not apart of “the status quo”, I am ok with that! I’m ok with waiting for my best friend to show up! Some one that I have enough respect and love for, that when the hard times hit; you can rely on the love and respect that brought you together and has bonded you together for such a time to be reciprocated. Memories, experiences, and kids are no reason to stay with someone. That someone you deserve to be with will share an unbreakable bond with you. Something that sometimes can’t be said with simple words. I remember my 20’s. I thought I knew everything, and I thought I needed everything. Still working on that… I also remember I was very fearful. I don’t know why, maybe I was fearful of my own ignorance? I do know I didn’t really put myself out there if I couldn’t see the answer to a problem, or knew the conclusion to a decision I was making. I also made some selfish decisions! Now that I am in my 30’s I can say that I am a little wiser, and know that when I make a decision I can do so without regret because of my intent! I don’t need to be so fearful anymore, how the heck does that benefit me? It was my own personal evolution and learning from life experiences that made me a better person! So I am going to live this life, and take it one step at a time. There isn’t any rush, and anything truly great comes with time! I plan on spending my time getting healthy again, living to my full potential, and giving back to others wherever I can. I was very blessed with an amazing family. They know me, and have always been there for me when ever I needed them! I can trust them to give me sound advice and unconditional love. I can’t imagine how hard it is for those lacking in loved ones or what I would do with out them! If you have real family, I hope you appreciate them! If I get lucky enough; to have surrounded myself with my best friend, family, and loved one’s. In my opinion I have truly been successful in life! No money or possession can give me that! Before that time comes, long into the future. I don’t think I have even begun to experience everything life has to offer. Let’s be honest, I don’t even know true fear yet… I don’t have kids! ☺
Posted on: Fri, 08 Aug 2014 23:13:39 +0000
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