I followed some posts about a man watching children in the mall. One parent was unnerved by it and went and stood by the man to check out the scene. The man ultimately left the area. Many offered possibilities for why he was sitting there. All of them COULD have been true but since no one knows for sure, the childrens safety should always be in the foreground. That is one of the many jobs of a parent - to protect their children. Unfortunately, this is not always the case. I would like to share a few insights from years of safety and empowerment training and coaching... 1. If you feel uncomfortable about something, DO NOT ignore it. That is why we have a built in radar or intuition. 2. Prudent is always good - watch the balance between prudent and paranoia. If you and your children are educated and empowered to know how to respond, fear and paranoia usually do not enter the picture. 3. Where kids are concerned, ALWAYS ERR ON THE SIDE OF CAUTION. If someones actions are suspect, get help and report ALL the details. If you are wrong, the truth will come out and your children and others are still safe. 4. Teach them that NO MEANS NO! Too many times we teach our children that NO means keep asking until I get tired of hearing it and then I say yes. Your boundary with them today will be their boundary in difficulties in the future. 5. Start communication at an early age. Dialog with and not at your children. When they are teens, you will have better communication! These are just a very few tips...Parents train up your children to be aware or their surroundings, to avoid things and people that may make them feel uncomfortable, and to take action and get help when needed.
Posted on: Fri, 24 Jan 2014 23:45:29 +0000
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