I got a message from someone the other day when I posted my wedding pic on here. And this person said that chapter twos do not always go well and that my work does not help her at all. My response to that message and to all the second and third chapter experiences that do not go well or as we imagine them to be is this: 1. Chapter twos threes and fours are here to rediscover ourselves and learn more about who we are. 2. Loss will come back sometimes bigger than ever and sometimes not. Our hearts will be broken many times. But our ability to reenter life after loss is what matters. 3. If you are still alive then you are meant to be here to live life and love again in whatever way you want. 4. Being bitter and angry towards people who keep getting up does not serve you. 5. I dont believe in happily ever after but I believe in loving and living ever after loss. 6. I am fully aware that I will experience many more losses before my last day on this earth. And so will you, me posting a picture of happiness for my life today does not mean that I will never get my heart broken again. It means that I believe that we can have happy moments again and again and again. No matter the loss. No matter the tragedy. 7. I am also fully aware that my attitude to begin again against all odds is a bit crazy and an overachieving one. But I will not take heartbreak laying down in the mud. I will rise next to the flowers and if there arent any, trust me I will plant some. LOVE YOU ALL. BELIEVERS OF LIFE AFTER LOSS OR NOT. For the believers and the dreamers: secondfirsts/book
Posted on: Sun, 01 Jun 2014 18:30:14 +0000