I got asked a question that I haven’t heard in a while. I’ve avoided answering this question so many times just because it wasn’t peoples business to know, but I am tired of people judging without the knowledge of the facts. Question is: “How come you take care & show more love to your little cousins than your own sisters & brother? “ My answer to this question can be viewed in so many ways starting from being obligated to being family, but tonight I will give you the answer that not even my own flesh & blood knows. Well just like all sad & happy stories begin about someone’s life. It started when I was a baby, I’m not going to go to go too much into the story of my life because in reality everybody in the world has problem & mine was not as bad as others so I am not going to sit here & try to tell you my childhood was horrible, but just like so many families my parents weren’t meant to be. This is where my dad, aunts, uncles, and grandparents come in. My family sacrificed so much to take care of not only me but all my cousins & I’m not saying they don’t appreciated what our family did for them, but we all have our own life, our own choices, & our own opinions. My family has always been close, sure we have our ups & downs but who doesn’t, is not until recently that we have been falling apart & I am not here to blame no body. Long story short I owe my life to my family for what they did for all of us & will sacrifice my own life to make sure my little cousins do not struggle nor go what most of us have gone thru, sure I can’t always be there for them & some things they have to learn on they own but better bet I will push them so hard & continue to push them. Couple things I do want the clear up, 1. By NO means necessary AM I obligated to take care of them, I do it because just like my family did for me and all my cousins when they didn’t have nothing I will do the same & 2. I DO NOT love my cousins any more or any less than my sisters & brother. The only reason you don’t see me showing love to them or taking care of them is because I know they are with someone that is watching over them and they know I will never ever erase them from my heart, I just go where I am needed & they are in very good hands for. Like I said in the beginning everybody has problem some worse than others & I will never think my life was hard or will ever be hard because life is what you make it. I will always & forever be a family man, the phase “Family Comes First” will be taken to my grave. Love you Urania, Mia, Sarahi, Isamar, Mauricio, Luis, Joanna, Stephanie, Michelle, Jasmine, Jeannette, Veronica, Brenda, Aaron, Mari, Josie, Jessica, Frankie, Xavier, John, Iris, Melissa, Mark, Jaylen, Raul, Miguel, & Jose Luis.
Posted on: Fri, 27 Sep 2013 05:04:55 +0000
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