I have a question. Its legitimate and I really would like people to weigh in on this and give me their honest opinion. I will really appreciate input. I had a one time friend that moved approximately 40 miles away from me when my twins were young. She has been gone since my Children were about 7 years old and they are now 24 1/2. Next she moved again and I was able to visit her a few times. Finally she moved about 50 miles away, then 70 miles away. In the meantime My daughter had given birth to my eldest Grandchild who is 11 and my other daughter a grandson who is 4 1/2. She kept asking me when I was going to come down to visit because I had only been down one time about 4 years ago. When my grandson was about 2 and my granddaughter about 8-9 who are very well behaved I thought I would surprise her and say I would be able to come down to visit the next weekend for the day only. She was extremely happy and when I told her I would be bringing Jack and Val she immediately said Oh No, No, No. I said you know my grandchildren are good, Im not going to let them tear up your home or yard or spill anything. She flat said NO. So, I was greatly offended and decided I never had another reason to ever go down to visit that girl because my primary concern is the welfare of my Children and Grandchildren. On several occasions she has made snide comments about me not coming down but I really never responded because I didnt want to listen to her try to make up a story and say it never happened. We are no longer friends and we never will be because since that time she has made up a lot of lies about me, my lifestyle, anything and everything she could think up to dog me about and people have told me so I have no reason to ever try to rekindle a completely dead friendship. Im just curious what those with Children or Grandchildren would think about it and if I was wrong? I might add, this woman lived in a manufactured home, not the Taj Mahal. Just tell me what you think. The reason I ask at this late date is she mentioned it to my eldest daughter a couple of times last month and I was pretty shocked that shes still grumbling (along with the lies) about ME not driving to HER after what she did to me over my Grandkids.
Posted on: Thu, 25 Sep 2014 04:52:51 +0000
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