I have come to believe there are three sorts of women, when it comes to questions of maternity. There are women who are born to be mothers, women who are born to be aunties, and women who should not be allowed within ten feet of a child. Its really important to know which category you belong to ... Now, listen — if you put a baby in front of me, rest assured: that baby is going to get cuddled, spoiled and adored. But even as Im loving on that beautiful infant, I know in my heart: This is not my destiny. It never was. And there is a curious rush of joy that I feel, knowing this to be true—for it is every bit as important in life to understand who you are NOT, as to understand who you ARE. Me, Im just not a mom ... Having reached a contented and productive middle age, I can say without a blink of hesitation that wouldnt trade my choices for anything. —Elizabeth Gilbert
Posted on: Sat, 20 Sep 2014 05:37:12 +0000