I have never, since Facebook grabbed my attention, used this media to direct criticism or disdain at people. That is going to change now. I have known a family and their members for a number of years. I have always thought of them as good people, people who wanted to make a difference. I have thought of them as people I would give help and support to just as I thought they did for others and indeed have done for me. What you did yesterday however overstepped all boundaries. It was the accumulation of several months of increasing vitriol and focus. But I will not tolerate cowards and bullies and that is what this is. And the arrogance of your pitiful angst, thinking that anyone would ever feel they needed to avoid you out of fear??? Are you joking!!!!???? Avoidance of irrational, unreasonable and hurtful people is very understandable, but to think people hurry about their business through a fear of engaging with your cowardly and unreasonable personas.....hahahahahaha I thank the people who brought this hideous example of jealousy and hate to my notice. The posting was later removed, but I say to you, dont bother doing that. Let all see how you truly engage with those who counted you as friends. I dont know if it is life that has changed them. I dont know if circumstances are bad for them right now. I dont know if life for them has become so scary and maybe lonely? I hope not. But there is absolutely no excuse for the absolute disgusting, cowardly and pathetic way that members and friends of this family(not all I must add!) have decided to launch a very personal and hurtful attack on a person who despite her own losses, which are considerable, has never shown me, or anyone else I have seen her have dealings with, anything but a common and fundamental respect. It might be that she doesnt always agree with things that are said or done by others. It can be that she comes across to some as being reserved and uncommunicative, nervous and shy. She doesnt to those who take the time to get to know her. She is insecure, vulnerable and hurt, but she is my girl, she is lovely, she has a love and kindness she tries to share with genuine and warm people. She thinks about others, feels their suffering, hurts for them too. Unlike in many people this empathy for others is genuine. She makes the best friend any of you out their could ever wish for. There are those of you who simply dont deserve to know her. Those who do are lucky and loved. I am proud of her, proud I got to know her after a very difficult time myself. The people trying to bully her, degrade her, punish her, alienate her...the very people who were prepared to do her and her son a wrong I would never have dreamed would come from where it did, or how it did...you have no hold, no right, no power over Anette Trampedag. I will love and protect her as will her genuine friends. When you bully and hurt her you are attacking me. I will say these things to your face and to anyone who continues your line of action. It belittles you and does no harm to Anette. Look at your own life, your own family, your own actions. Reflect on those, make them right. When you come to Anette and explain what this has been about. Apologize for the actions, threats, and slanders you have hurt her with. When you apologize for the unbelievable and frankly criminal wrong you did her son, then I will promise you this, I will make the biggest effort to forgive you, to remember you as the people I once thought you were. I will put the insult you have given me, by hurting someone I love like this to one side and accept your apology - if Anette does. But until then do not even waste your time looking at me, because I will be looking down on you will pity and with sadness. I will feel your arrogance and attitude as an insult to my space and time!
Posted on: Tue, 11 Nov 2014 13:28:27 +0000
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