I have so-called friends who I never hear from except when they need something. Life’s too short to be hanging around people who try to control and manipulate you. Anyone who does so is not a true friend. Gain your independence by taking off the shackles and freeing yourself from these bullies. Sometimes bullying comes from the most unlikely places. Be conscious of how your friends treat you, and look out for the subtle jabs they throw. When necessary, confront them or distance yourself from them – whatever it takes to give yourself the opportunity to grow into who you really are. When you notice that a friend is always taking from you without giving back, you might need to distance yourself from them for a while. If they care, they’ll notice. If they don’t, you know where you stand. If you feel like you are being taken advantage of, respect yourself enough to confront the situation. Beware of friends who try to belittle your ambitions.
Posted on: Sat, 21 Sep 2013 17:26:47 +0000