I have something to say about relationships/breakups: Ive been in love two times in my life. The first time, I was 16 and it took me several months to turn my infatuation into real love. I stayed with this guy for over 4 years and when it inevitably ended, it didnt take me long to move on. The second time, I fell hard and fast. In a matter of weeks, I felt more intensely about this man than I had ever felt before. My first love paled in comparison. And with the passionate love, came passionate fighting. With that said, we only stayed together for about 6 months. Only a handful of you know who this second love is and how I wouldve done anything for him. And when it ended, it felt like the world was going to end. But then I would log on to FB and everyone was going about their business like nothing happened. & thats when I realized that its not the end of the world. Im one small piece in this crazy million piece puzzle that is life. Im sure that Im going to fall in and out of love at least a couple more times in life. & Ill get through it every time. Im proof that you can love someone and move on from them in a matter of days. & Im also proof that you can fall in love insanely quick and then take months to move on from them afterwards. No matter who you are or who you fell in love with, take your time. No one can tell you how you feel about someone or when you will feel better if/when it ends. Take it one day at a time and realize that youll feel right again someday. And in the meantime, just focus on bettering yourself. & one day, youll wake up and realize that you havent thought about him in forever. And youll realize that thinking about him again doesnt bring knots to your stomach. One day, youll realize that a man doesnt define you. You define you. And youll just keep on truckin. 💕👊
Posted on: Tue, 22 Jul 2014 13:44:46 +0000
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