I have spent a great deal of my life being a victim. Not even being a victim of anything truly horrible just being a victim. A victim is someone who allow life to dictate to her how she will respond. The response usually is to do nothing, or make excuses or keep blaming others. The fact is you are the one who is at the heart of any problem you may have. The good news is you are at the heart of every solution. The tricky part is that it may cause you to need to be more present, it may cause you to grow up, change your priorities and make hard decisions when you look around and take inventory. See my son and I were studying the steps of the scientific method. I realized that I was in constant observation and hypothesis mode. I could tell you all the hypothesises I had on why I had problems. The issue was what was I going to do about it besides talking and observing. I mean how many times do we get dressed and say I need to lose weight. Or maybe get out of breath on a set of stairs. How many times do we drive thru a fast food place saying I have to eat better? We are constantly observing ourselves getting more and more unhappy yet doing less and less to fix it! Stop observing and MOVE ON to the action part. Make one change-one variable and let everything else be your control. Think about how you could SOLVE the issue of your problem and then test it. But dont just test it once...good experiments are tested time and time again. Keep doing that one thing and see if you can draw a conclusion if it helps your problem. Be the mad scientist of your own life and see what you discover :)
Posted on: Mon, 29 Sep 2014 02:02:23 +0000
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