I know a lot of ladies who are having troubles finding a good man. That is understandable as there not near as many as there once was back in the day. That being said it is a numerical fact that women outnumber men in some areas by three to one and in others seven to one. Hence pickins are slim. Add to that over 40 men start dying off and most of the good ones are already married it gets tougher. Whats left are the multiple marrieds, still home with Mom, convicts, addicts of all kinds, players, the chronically unemployable or low end employable and those who do not care for women. SO, if you are having a hard time, it is understandable. While many women need to raise their standards a bit there are some who need to be more realistic. Contrary to some advisors you may have to settle for less than the perfect man as he does not exist except in your imagination. In the long haul, you are better off to stay single than to ind one of those bad guys. Two people being miserable is not a grand thing. Maybe God has called you to singleness and you would mess up what He has for you by getting married. In 1 Cor7 Paul by Gods inspiration and permission says there are worse things than being single and some would do well to stay that way especially in perilous times. However, if you just cannot imagine yourself alone for life then you will only beat the odds against you by seeking God. He knows your match better than any match making group on the Net. After all, people lie like a dog on those things. The match may be more from Hell than Heaven once you fall for the persons act. God loves you and knows your needs and needs are better than wants as we often want what is not good for us. Be patient and seek to love and serve your Lord as the Bride of Christ and that holiness and love will shine out to attract a man looking for the right kind of woman. That man will appreciate you because of your true value not because of what the world values or Cosmo or some other glam rag will tell you. Blessings to you!
Posted on: Sun, 01 Dec 2013 02:49:41 +0000
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