I met an 70ish lady today who had a brace on her arm and explained to me it was because of breast cancer that she had and they removed lymph nodes from her arm and now she had trouble using it. I asked her how long ago she had cancer and she said 15 years...she went on to tell me and my girlfriend that she had married her second husband and shortly after getting married she wanted to have breast reduction surgery and he told her that he married her big breasted and he didnt want that to change. (I tried to hide how appalled I was by this) she then went on to say that after he passed away one of the first things she did was have breast reduction surgery and when they went in they found she had stage 4 breast cancer and she ended up having a double mastectomy...I wonder how her late husband would have handled that. My point is this, when you get married you may look a certain way...over time, children, gravity, sicknesses etc your body changes...that certainly should not change your love for your spouse...if anything I would hope scars from surgeries that hopefully saved his/her life and a bit more skin because of childbirth would only make you love them more....props to all those that have endured these things and become stronger because of it...
Posted on: Fri, 08 Aug 2014 04:32:26 +0000
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