I need some real advice Im in a situation here. About 2 weeks ago I found out that my youngest son father had our son name involved with some Federal Credit Union just by finding an 2 envelopes one with his name on it & one with my son name addressed to his aunts house. He took the envelope away from me & wont let me see whats inside of it. Now, he says hes saving money for our son & this so called Federal Credit Union is through his uncles church in which I find it hard to believe because I never saw evidence of this. So after all the arguing & him acting weird & all, I put him out of my house & made him go back to his aunts house. I immediately wrote the federal credit union & told them the truth about whats going on & I did a change of address online so when anything comes to his aunts house it will come straight to me at my address. I wrote his father a letter letting him know how I felt about things & us. He said, when I put him out thats when our relationship had ended he quickly took down our relationship status on Facebook the same day he left. He says I put him out when he was down & I kicked his back in & this is something he will never forget. He wont take responsibility on what he did, or apologize. He says if I dont give him our sons social security number then we cant be together. Hes basing our relationship on a social security number & this is not right. I told him how I felt about this & Im not getting no where with this. Hes been demanding for the babys social for over a year now & to me its not a good thing. He says he wants a woman to share everything with her man & if its not me then we cant be together. Honestly, all Im doing is protecting my sons name from any harm, & Im very scared to give it to him because if he went behind my back once who knows whatll he do if he was to get the babys social. Now, I do love him I was with him for almost 3 years & Ive known him for 13years. I do wanna work it out with him, but he had that choice when he left. He didnt have to leave, he could of been a real man & tried to talk with me & work this out, but he didnt. He chose to quickly move & pack up his stuff & left. He blames me for him leaving. Now the question is, do I give the father to my son the babys social security number or no??? This is not the first time weve had this issue with the babys social security number & not the first time hes jeopardized our relationship over the babys social security number. I need real answers & real advice dont need no one judging me on this matter.
Posted on: Tue, 27 Jan 2015 05:33:19 +0000
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