I often hear from my clients and my readers WHY IS MARRIAGE SO - TopicsExpress



          

I often hear from my clients and my readers WHY IS MARRIAGE SO HARD. I usually reply to the inevitable “marriage is hard” question with another question: “FOR WHOM IS MARRIAGE HARD?” Marriage is ONLY HARD for those who: Try to make their partners into someone they are not Believe they have superior rights, tastes, preferences, beliefs, or morality Are unwilling to use binocular vision to see their partner’s perspectives alongside their own Believe their partners are selfish, mentally ill, or defective Are unable or unwilling to admire their partners’ strengths and meet their vulnerabilities with compassion and support. If you are one of those people, marriage will seem impossible. If you’re not, it’s just about NEGOTIATION.
Posted on: Wed, 05 Nov 2014 17:01:16 +0000

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