I often spend countless hours teaching others to be responsible and accountable for their own actions and to own your thoughts, feelings and be true to yourself and motives for the choices you make in life. Now while I love the fact that my transparency often sends devils into a frenzy of confusion left to feed only on each other Im being free (truthful) about me it exposes them... I have had to learn a great lesson about myself trusting God over the last 2 years. 1} When your helping others financially and you hit send YOU are making a choice that you will have to own when all the excuses, avoidance and inability to communicate I cant or wont pay you back comes and even when they cant you wonder where the (friend) is ..... Friendship is more than $$$ and if thats all thats between you sorry but not a friend... ( User ) is a much better term comes in the form of friends and family.. Just know I will never complain or trade places because Im elated that Im the head and not the tail, above only and not beneath, the righteousness of God and most of all the lender and not the borrower..... 2} When you make choices to help others consider all the risk, and sacrifices you make simply trying to stand in the gap for someone else (loss of friendship and lack of communication over money) ( longer work hours paying back someone elses debt that takes you away from your kids, family social life ect.. as their golden moments role on ) 3} The ability to still know God has you in spite of unlearned lessons by others and how to flow in Gods peace that surpasses all understanding ( The kind that allows you to communicate vs let someone HOLD IT as they so deserve ) 4} How to say NO.....and stop allowing the crisis of others be your emergency (NOT)
Posted on: Fri, 14 Nov 2014 16:19:29 +0000
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