I read Wiley last April, and its been very useful in detecting deception in my Exs use of defence mechanisms.... It suggests using the Reid Tecnique Of Interrogation to further detect deception/lies, which she was textbook to the T being manipulative and went straight to displacement of anger toward I for being the one that went over and told her husband of our affair, but she cannot accept responsibility for the fact that she initiated the affair..... Fact; I hadnt talked to her in months prior to the affair, I had even blocked her phone so she couldnt call me prior to the affair.... Then she contacted a mutual contact to contact I...... She then made the conscious effort to drive from Huntingburg to Evansville every Friday for 3 months..... So how can she put the blame on me for contacting her husband when I had a feeling of guilt and remorse and felt like it was the ethical thing to do? Besides that I was distraught because she had been telling me for 3 months that I would have Ana in my life.... (Which I shouldnt have had that feeling at all because I was told she was divorcing him to get my daughter and her out of a bad situation.). So moral of this story is that everything Ive done or said has been about seeing or protecting Ana.... This is why I want this to go in front of a judge or mediator, or someone because I deserve to be heard....... My Ex hides behind the PO she fraudulently had issued, and she cant even have a conversation about any of this...... Shes actually scared to talk about it....... Before the PO she hid behind text messages because text messages require very little interaction..... And she always used the excuse that shes been busy when she has to think of a responce..... Truth is she needs the time to think of a responce that wont contradict one of her past lies.... And I know that Ive devoted much time and energy into proving her character, and In my opinion its worth every minute of it because every minute Im studying something about my Exs affliction is hopefully one minute that Ana has that she doesnt have to deal with that affliction.....
Posted on: Tue, 30 Dec 2014 03:00:30 +0000