I really need urgent advice.a guy asked my hand in marriage since October 6 2012, he told me that the money for the marriage is set. I asked him to give me some time to pray about,after my prayer i accepted his proposal,when i went close to him i notice he has nothing but he really want to settled down. To cut the story short. I joined hand with him to work things out,being that i love him,and he happened to be my first man,i stick to him alone,i said no to everyone who seek for my hand in marriage. In February 2013, my pastor invited both of us into his office and asked us how far we have gone for the marriage plan, he told the pastor that is looking at October 6, 2013 as well. My pastor agreed with him. One day i went to his house in the morning and met a lady working and cooking for him with half wrapper on her waist,i ran away,all these while i didnt know he was going out with his worker, even before coming to me. I wanted to quite,but he begged and begged even promised not to try it again,being that i love him i accepted the apology. After some mouths he did away with her. Our life continued. I tried my best to gather some money so that we can start planning for the marriage. But l noticed that im the only one planning and talking about it. I later put off my mind,but still love him, believing God that it will work out one day. I endured with him until this January 2014, his mum asked him to sell one of their land and use the money for our marriage,when he sold the land,he came to my house and told me.and before that i do asked him,(if you have money now what will you do first? i do asked him this question several times and he will always give me one Answer or the other, that he will build house first,i didnt care i supported the idea,because his mum is living in a mud house i didnt care,i was still in love with him, i know i am an orphan and im not from a rich home but i never slept in a mud house before,i didnt care i do go there and sleep with his mum. Right he has really changed, and i am fed up with the whole thing. What should i do? i am really fed up? Submitted by Amara.
Posted on: Fri, 17 Oct 2014 11:02:40 +0000
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