I recently quoted Caroline Myss as saying something like We each determine the speed at which we heal. But when I slow down and think about it I ask myself Did she really say that? I dont know. Doesnt matter. I think she did. And it rings true. This is part of my message. Part of this new way to do grief. I have said it over and over in a million different ways and I know that until YOU are ready for the message you will not hear it. Not really. Thats how it works. When the student is ready the teacher appears. Im okay with that. Time alone does not heal a damn thing. Sorry, it doesnt. Look around. If it did all those bitter, closed off, angry, youll-never-heal folks walking around our lives posting on FB creating their own circles and support groups and communities writing books holding conferences and workshops (which they have EVERY right to do) would be healed by now cause they have been out there for just about forever. When I am with them I dont feel that healing is occurring. And Ive learned to trust my feelings on this one. Right? It is what we do with our time that determines if we will heal in the first place and the speed at which we heal. Revolutionary for many. I am not a victim. I am a participant. A co-creator. So are you. Is it easy? Hell no. And that is why most most most people do not it. Or have not done it. Until now. I believe more and more and more people are awakening and saying YES there is a new way to do grief. And I am IN. I am in. Does that make sense? Are you in? There is a new way to do grief. It begins with intention. Join us at facebook/tomzuba1
Posted on: Sun, 25 Jan 2015 12:46:33 +0000