I remember when my ex-boyfriend broke up with me; life was so hard for me. I could always think about him, the love we had and wonderful moments we shared. I could have sleepless nights, cry like a little baby and I hated love. I could take all boys to be the same. I could take them to be liars, players, sluts and whores. The tough decision he made of quitting me broke my heart into pieces, it ruined my entire life and it changed my perception about love & relationships. It took me so long to move on because I always thought he will get back to me someday. It’s hard to believe but I waited for him to come back to me for a full year but all my waiting was in vain. I could always have a force in me pushing me to look for him and tell him how I felt and pain I was going through but I lacked the courage. As you all know the pain for being broken hearted, I ended up jumping into a new relationship hoping to heal so fast and you know what happened, I gave in my whole heart but I ended rebounding and my heart got damaged the more. I decided to relax and I nursed my heart with the help of my friends who always advised me and encouraged me till I got healed. It wasnt a one night process. It took me some good time but eventually I stopped crying, stressing and over thinking about him I made myself busy with work and other productive things, I kept myself around my friends and family and with time I got over that pain and I became happy again. I know many people hate their exes to the extent that they wish them hell but to me it’s a different case, this ex of mine is my good friend now, he checks on me once in a while. He likes me to be happy and I also do the same. I don’t hate him and his relationship. Actually I thank him for breaking my heart because it opened my eyes to many things. I learnt how to care, value what I have, be appreciative, not to fully trust anyone, how to deal with heart breaks and he made me feel & understand what true love is. So my friends and fans out there, if you are going through a similar situation, just take it slow. Don’t rush it. Don’t just jump into a new relationship. It won’t heal your wounds instead it will just enlarge and deepen them. Give yourself time to fully heal. In that process, make yourself busy with work, studies or any productive and educative activity, keep around your good friends and your family, perform some exercises to keep your body in shape, eat a balanced diet so that you remain health and do any other things that can distract your mind from thinking about them. Trust me with time you’ll forget about them and you’ll start living a new life. And when time comes and you feel that you are ready for a new relationship get into it but make sure you don’t repeat the some mistakes. just know life goes on and believe me or not, you’ll find someone else that you deserve.
Posted on: Tue, 16 Dec 2014 09:15:16 +0000
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