I saw this list from a site that i gain lots of information from and thought that it is great to share, not always saying we will follow these rules(guidelines) but it is a good thing to keep in mind during those difficult times. 10 COMMANDMENTS FOR HOW TO HAVE A GOOD FIGHT 1. Begin with something positive to create a friendly atmosphere. 2. Appreciate the human being you are talking with. S/he is not the enemy. 3.Respect your opponents desire to do the right thing. When possible, give positive feedback. 4.Desire peace. If your opponent makes offensive mistakes, dont retaliate, rather help him/her recover. 5.Be open-minded. If your opponent makes a good objection, admit to it (and enjoy your new clarity). 6. Dont interrupt. Treat others as you would like to be treated. In the long term, you will save time. 7. Dont provoke your opponent by hitting his/her hot buttons. 8. Show me, dont shout at me. Keep the fight intellectual. Dont force your opinion by shouting. 9. Lead by example. Dont expect your opponent to keep these rules. Teach them by example. 10. End by summarizing what you have in common with your opponent, a good start for next time.
Posted on: Sun, 07 Sep 2014 16:06:25 +0000
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