I spent many (MANY!!) years trying to be the kind of person I - TopicsExpress



          

I spent many (MANY!!) years trying to be the kind of person I assumed others would see as loveable ~ which often translated to doormat, and left me feeling resentful of others for choices *I* was making. Not only that, but I am pretty sure that this fake Dina (who did the same things the real Dina likes, but from a different intention~ a desperate need) was subconsciously rubbing my Husband the wrong way ~ because he didnt like me for years. It was obvious. Ask anyone who was around us. Ironically, when I started putting into practice the idea that *I* come first to Me, and that my wants and needs are valid and worthy of being met, I noticed a significant change in how my Love started treating me. The more open and free I became, the more authentic and honest about my Self, and the more I stopped trying to make people love me, the more this Man melted his own facade. The happier I become with my Self, the happier he has become with me ~ and the changes he is implementing in his own life, without me saying a word, are pretty great
Posted on: Sat, 07 Jun 2014 18:43:53 +0000

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