I was matched to someone on tinder and we chatted daily for a few months, voice call and text. We got along great but didnt meet up because she wanted to have 6 months away from any relationships to get over her x who was violent, so that any baggage was not carried over into a new relationship. She was also in and out of the country for work and didnt want to start something while committed to some overseas contracts. I told her that I was fine with this and we could chat rather than meet, but as a single person I would continue being single, meeting new people, using tinder etc because I wasnt going to put my life on hold for someone I havent met. This was fine for a few weeks but then she claimed to have developed feelings for me and that she didnt like how I was still on tinder etc. She wanted me to delete it, stop being single, and basically wait for her to return from her committments (still 6 weeks away). I argued and said it was crazy to put all my eggs in one basket when we hadnt met. She basically called it off because she couldnt handle seeing me on there, and thinking about me chatting to other women. Who is in the wrong here? >A
Posted on: Mon, 21 Jul 2014 05:16:29 +0000