“I will wait for you.” “Take your time.” “You make my day better.” I say those words to my slow-moving, happy-go-lucky, Noticer of life child. I watch as grateful eyes light up and tiny shoulders relax. Those words are soul-building words to her. “Mistakes mean you are learning.” “It doesn’t have to be perfect.” “Okay, you can have a few more minutes to work on your project.” I say those words to my driven, contentious planner and pursuer of dreams child. I watch as pressure escapes from her chest and aspirations soar higher. Those words are confidence-boosting words to her. “I appreciate you.” “I’m listening.” “You matter.” I say those words to my hard-working, often underappreciated love of my life. I watch as tensions loosen, eyes meet, and conversation comes easier. Those words are affirming and connective words to him. “It’s good enough for today.” “Be kind to yourself.” “Today isn’t over—there’s still time to turn it around.” I say those words to my own perfection-seeking, worrisome heart. I watch as my clenched hands open and tears fall as scars come to the surface. Those are healing, hope-filled words to me. The words “I love you” should never be underestimated, but every human being has a few words that make her soul come alive …. that bring acceptance to his uncertain heart … that help them rise when they fall. Discover what those words are by watching—what makes him smile? What makes her shine? What adds a spring to their step? Commit those soul-building words to memory and say them, say them as often as you can So that one day, you are no longer needed to hear them. © Rachel Macy Stafford 2014
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