I would like to know why you are telling others and close friends of your BF that I abused and financially took from you? In reality, I spoiled you rotten. I did for you more than anyone on earth would. I raised you as a single mother since you were 4 yrs old. Even though your brother was severely disabled, you achieved so many accomplishments that amazed everyone. You received Art Awards in School and the Congressional Art Award from our Congressman at a State University; you were on the National Honor Society; you received Student of the Month Awards; you were in the newspaper for the Mural in our Municipal Bldg.; you were honored at the Manor in West Orange and the Grand Chalet in Wayne for your achievements. I took you door to door to College, registered you every semester, bought books for you every semester, because you could not and world not do it yourself. I took you to the doctor for everything from all your eye problems, to the nerve studies in your arm, to your scoliosis with x-rays, to the dentists, eye doctors, social security, etc. When you collapsed at college, I got you at home Degree/Certificate courses in Art, Spanish, Algebra, Web Design, and Advanced Web Design. I got you started in the Center even though you were reluctant. I taught you everything you know, even crocheting. I took you shopping all over and spent a lot of money getting you everything you wanted, because I felt sorry for you. You always got your favorite foods, DVDs, games, accessories, etc. I helped you dress and did your hair. I got you the nicest clothes. The Center had our family filmed last year on a News segment on Cable TV. I spent my days making your favorite exotic food. Every Holiday I fulfilled your desire for Specialty items. I even took you to Gold’s Gym with me and signed you up as a member. My friends there took you under their wing. HOW IN GOD’S NAME DOES THIS SOUND LIKE SOMEONE ‘ABUSED’? Who are you kidding? No one can believe what is coming out of you or how you abruptly changed since meeting your BF. People who knew you most of your life are shocked and stunned friends, family, neighbors, school staff, etc. Even the girl from the auto repair shop said, “you lost your best friend”….You were the last person one earth that anyone would believe would turn into what you are now. You paid your fair share living here. How far do you think your Welfare goes? 50 percent of the income was rent with you living here. I never got paid for my services to you. You didn’t use public transportation to fulfill your needs. I was your chauffeur service. I did everything for you. No one paid me for the work. I got you your Fios triple play for your “Business”, 3 ½ months before you took off, $70.00 more than what I paid before. Now I’m stuck with your bills in a 2 yr. agreement or pay a $230.00 penalty. Now, 70 percent of my income is rent, until my life picks up again. You don’t realize, no matter how many times I told you that my income supported you because all you’re growing years I ‘deemed’ to you. I had no money to myself. Thank God we had my parents to help. But, they are now turning in their grave because you were the prized possession. If I took advantage of anyone financially, it was Anthony, because I only thought of you and was leaving everything I got from my family to only you. I even took out a large life insurance policy that you were sole beneficiary of. Why? Because I thought you were so smart and would use everything wisely. I wanted you to be secure the rest of your life without worry of being in the street. But, had I only foresaw what was in store. You didn’t want to know your father for 25 yrs of your life because of what happened in the past. You didn’t forget. I told you every occasion to at least send e-cards to him and you resented me for it. I tried to make you answer the phone when he called and you resented me for that too. Now you will not talk to me at all and you honor him because he approves of what you are doing and how you are doing it. It speaks for itself….But, do not ever say I abused you or took advantage of you financially in any way, shape, or form because that is an abominable lie and everyone knows it from your past. There were 2 disgraceful bumper stickers put on my car after you left. I wonder where they came from? Your mind is what people feed into your head and you exaggerate excuses to justify what you did. One day, God willing, you will have a rude awakening to reality. I hope sooner than later for your sake. To say I wouldn’t let you back into my home is outrageous. You were lured away by your BF and his family made it easy for you because they have a free sitter for an elderly relative and her home. One day you will wake up and realize what reality is. I am writing this out of anger because of what is being told to me by your acquaintances. Anthony and I have had to set them straight. Right now I thank God for my 2 precious sons who I do not believe will ever do to me what you did. It’s unfortunate that this is happening at a time when your brother is not well and I have that on my mind. This is not what I need right now.
Posted on: Sun, 21 Jul 2013 19:41:08 +0000
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