IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE, DO NOT QUARREL WITH HIM ! Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta ‘ala) says: AND CONSORT WITH YOUR WIVES IN A GOODLY MANNER; FOR IF YOU DISLIKE THEM, IT MAY WELL BE THAT YOU DISLIKE SOMETHING WHICH ALLAH MIGHT YET MAKE A SOURCE OF ABUNDANT GOOD Al-Nisa 4:19 اور ان کے ساتھ اچھی طرح رہو سہو اگر وہ تم کو ناپسند ہوں تو عجب نہیں کہ تم کسی چیز کو ناپسند کرو اور خدا اس میں بہت سی بھلائی پیدا کردے The Prophet Muhammad (Salla-Allahu ‘Alayhi wa Sallam) said: “IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE, DO NOT QUARREL WITH HIM AND DO NOT ANNOY HIM. DO NOT ASK OTHERS ABOUT HIM, FOR THE ONE YOU ASK MIGHT BE HIS ENEMY AND THUS TELL YOU THINGS ABOUT HIM THAT ARE NOT TRUE AND THUS BREAK YOU APART.” Bukhari. The Prophet Muhammad (Salla-Allahu ‘Alayhi wa Sallam) said: “AMONG LAWFUL THINGS, DIVORCE IS MOST DISLIKED BY ALLAH” Abu Dawud. The Prophet Muhammad (Salla-Allahu ‘Alayhi wa Sallam) said: “A MAN PASSED THE MESSENGER OF ALLAH (SAWS) WHO WAS IN THE COMPANY OF SOME PEOPLE, SO A MAN FROM THOSE WITH HIM SAID, ‘INDEED I LOVE THAT PERSON FOR ALLAH’S SAKE.’ SO THE MESSENGER OF ALLAH SAID: ‘HAVE YOU INFORMED HIM?’ HE SAID, ‘NO.’ HE (THE MESSENGER OF ALLAH) SAID: ‘GO TO HIM AND INFORM HIM.’ SO HE WENT AND INFORMED HIM, SO HE REPLIED, ‘MAY THE ONE FOR WHOSE SAKE YOU HAVE LOVED ME LOVE YOU.’ THEN HE RETURNED AND THE MESSENGER OF ALLAH ASKED HIM AND HE TOLD HIM WHAT HE HAD SAID. SO THE MESSENGER OF ALLAH SAID: ‘YOU WILL BE WITH THE ONE WHOM YOU HAVE LOVED AND THERE WILL BE FOR YOU THE REWARD THAT YOU HOPED FOR.’” Abu Dawud, Ahmad, Al-Hakim {Mentor}
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