IKAW BA AY MAY VICTIM MENTALITY? STOP! START TAKING ACTION. Meron ka ba kakilala o kaibigan na nagsasabi tuwing kwentuhan na "mahirap lang ako e" o "paawa effect". Ito ang "victim mentality", instead of taking responsibility kung anong nangyayari sa kanyang buhay, mas ginusto niya ibilang ang sarili bilang isang "biktima." Biktima ng lipunan, biktima ng corrupt na gobyerno, biktima ng sirang pamilya, biktima ng mahirap na pinanggalingan. Ang karaniwang kaisipan o thought ng isang victim ay "mahirap lang ako e". So, dahil yon lagi ang bukam-bibig niya, by law of intention, na patuloy na pumapasok sa isip niya, yon ang makukuha niya, "mahirap lang talaga siya. This is not a good attitude. Maaring tamang isipin tayo ay biktima ng ating katayuan sa lipunan ngunit pwede nating baguhin ang katayuan natin by changing ang attitude natin by not playing the role of a victim. We have to believe in ourselves that we hold the steering wheel of our life. We are the one who creates our own success. Sabihin natin na ang kahirapan natin ay hindi hadlang sa tagumpay, ang kawalan ng edukasyon ay hindi hadlang sa pagkita ng pera, ang layo ng agwat namin ay hindi hadlang sa maayos na pamilya. It still us, ourselves, who are responsible for our own dream. You dont have to blame someone or something. You dont need to justify your current status. You dont have to complain everything. At the end of the day, its always us, tayo ang tatanungin kung bakit hindi tayo umasenso o nagtagumpay. Ano ba ang ginawa mo para makaahon sa kinalalagyan mo. Take control of your life and your dream by not being a victim. Its not only wanting and choosing to be rich and successful but also committing to be one. Sabi ni T. Harv Eker ng Secrets of Millionaire Mind, there are three stages of "wanting" o "pagkakagusto." The first stage is "wanting" or "i want to be." Wanting does not necessarily means having it because as you can see, there are many people who want to be rich, but few are people are rich. The second stage is "choosing" or "i choose to be". This is just deciding to be or choosing a decision to be one but its still a first step towards having. The third stage is "committing" or "i commit to be." Ibig sabihin nito ay walang ifs and buts, a total devotion sa gusto mo, whatever it takes, gusto mo ito. This is the right attitude. Start steering your own wheel of life and commit to your dream and someday you will achieve it
Posted on: Thu, 15 Aug 2013 20:26:46 +0000
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