INNER VOID:~ Searching for the missing pieces of YOU in someone else. When we’re feeling incomplete, we tend to go out looking for somebody else to complete us. Initially we meet someone who’s compatible with us and they distract us from our deficiency, at least for a while. Then a few months or years into the relationship, we find that we’re still feeling incomplete, so we blame our friend or lover. It feels like they’ve changed, but in reality they haven’t; they’ve just become less of a distraction to our own growing INNER VOID. Ultimately what you need to realize is that while a close friend or lover can add beautiful dimensions to your life, YOU are responsible for your OWN FULFILMENT. Only you can complete yourself. Nobody else can provide your missing pieces, and to believe otherwise is to succumb to a lifetime of feeling broken, TRAUMA and GRIEVE as every relationship you enter eventually ends in hopeless disappointment. As soon as you stop making everyone and everything else responsible for your happiness, the HAPPIER you’ll be. If you’re unhappy now, it’s not someone else’s fault. Take full responsibility for your own unhappiness, and you will instantly gain the ability to be happier. Stop seeking in vain to arrange conditions that will make you happy. Simply choose to appreciate the greatness that is yours in this moment, and the right conditions will start to line up around the contentment you seek. Decide this minute to never again beg anyone for the LOVE, RESPECT, and ATTENTION that you should be showing yourself. Be your own BEST FRIEND. Trust your inner spirit and follow your INSTINCT. Accept who you are completely, the good and the bad, and make changes in your life as YOU see fit – not because you think anyone else wants you to be different, but because you know it’s the right thing to do, for YOU. Be the person you will be happy to live with for the duration of your life. Don’t rely on your significant from other, or anyone else for your happiness and self-worth. Know that our first and last love is always SELF-LOVE, and that if you can’t love and respect yourself, no one else will be able to either. Choose to be around the right people. –Spend time with nice people who are smart driven and likeminded. Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Surround yourself with people who reflect the person you want to be. Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you – people who make your day a little brighter simply by being in it. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. When you free yourself from negative people, you free yourself to be YOU – and being YOU is the only way to GENUINELY live::
Posted on: Wed, 02 Oct 2013 09:03:34 +0000
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