IS LOVE BY FORCE? Mr n Mrs Abeiku Okai Inspirations (Abeiku Okai Ministries) facebook/Inspiration.abeiku facebook/Inspirational.mrsokai Gentleman, what is your problem? Is love by force? Why are you pestering the lady so much like that? Do you want to marry a devil? If no then leave her alone because if you force a lady who does not love you to be in a relationship with you or marry you, she will become a devil to you. And you will regret following your heart without wisdom. Lady, hold on. Stop killing yourself and doing everything possible to win a mans heart. You cannot keep forcing yourself on him like that. Listen, a man can easily pretend to love you but in the end he will make a fool out of you. So if he is not showing interest in you, give up. Surely somebody will love you, even better. If he marries you while he doesnt love you count your marriage as hell. The mistake many people make is that once they love somebody then they think the person should also love them automatically. Well, it may happen that you love somebody who also loves you back but this is never a laid down rule of nature. Many of us have ever loved people who never loved us in return but what could we do? Force them to love us? Of course, no. Before I met my wife I had proposed to ladies who turned me down. It was yawa koraa but they were sincere to tell me it wouldnt work. However, that does not also mean I was not a man enough. In fact, I believe myself. I have all it takes to win a womans heart: I am a fine boy with romantic rabbit ears; I have the swag, the lyrics, the good rhythms; I am responsible; I am a promising youth. I am a church guy also and no lady ever deny that I am caring.....ask my wife and she will tell you more. I know how to go every length to win a womans heart but doing that may be foolishness and self-destructive. My wife is also a very fine baby girl. She has all it takes to be every mans queen. When I first met her, my heart melt and my knees bowed to her love. While I am still madly in love with her and dying for her love every morning, somebody somewhere might never love her. Of course, she has faced disappointment and rejection before. Had she gone around fighting to fall under the clutches of a person who did not love her, she would have missed a fine boy like me...lol. Anyway, hear the scriptures: All things are lawful unto me, BUT ALL THINGS ARE NOT EXPEDIENT: all things are lawful for me, but I WILL NOT BE BROUGHT UNDER THE POWER OF ANY. (1st Cor 6:12) You cannot afford to be brought under the power of a man or woman who does not love you. So stop fooling yourself that you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. Some things will later weaken you so Christ will never strengthen you to receive them. A loving father doesnt give snakes to his children. It is no news for somebody not to love you. Forget about the person and go ahead with your life. I believe somebody somewhere is casting his or her net to capture you. And I believe you will love that person more strongly than this person who isnt reciprocating your love. Love is not by force. You may say but I am not forcing him/her! Yes, you are not forcing him/her but dont you know persistence persuation is a force in itself? By all means you should not propose to a lady and expect her to accept you immediately. You will definately need to push forward but when there is every evidence that she does not love you, go ahead and look elsewhere. While you are struggling for her, another lady is also dying for you. Lady, enough of the enticement. See, you have even gone to the extent of giving your body and still he is not succumbing. Why continue? Give up and look elsewhere. If he is just bluffing and taking you for a ride, tell yourself love is not by force and leave. A man of his equal is waiting for you with wide opened arms. Be warned never to commit your heart into the hands of a person who does not love you. And never marry such a person, no matter how strongly you love him or her. I believe every saucepan and its lid. If you are a saucepan, you will definately find your lid; and if you are a lid you will also find your saucepan so dont be anxious and hopeless at all. Philippians 4:6-7 says: Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by PRAYER and PETITIION, with THANKSGIVING, present YOUR REQUEST to GOD. And the PEACE of God, which passes all understanding, will GUARD YOUR HEARTS and YOUR MINDS in Christ Jesus. If you are not finding the love you expect, pray about it and tell God straightly, Father, I feel helpless; I am not being loved so guard my heart to the right person and strengthen my mind to follow the right path into the heart that will reciprocate my love. In Jesus Name Hey, this prayer works. Oya, go on your knees. God is listening. But just repeat after me: Love...is...not...by...FORCE!!!! 1...2...3....GO! SHARE WITH FRIENDS. Whatsapp: 0249287855
Posted on: Wed, 25 Jun 2014 08:02:13 +0000
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