IT IS HIKMAH / WISDOM,HOW TO MAINTAIN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN PARENTS AND CHILDREN RELATIONSHIP? QURAN [17:23-24] And your Lord has accomplished that you do not serve anyone except (only) Him and be good with your parents. When anyone of them attain an old age one of them or both of them near you, so you do not say to both of them a word of contempt (dishonour) and you do not deprive / repel both of them and say an honourable saying to both of them (23) And from the mercy lower the wings (i.e. of success in life) in humility / humbleness for both of them and say, O’ my Lord be merciful on both of them as they both cherished me when I was little.(24) I CAN NEVER BE THE MUSLIM / SUBMITTER IN THE SIGHT OF ALLAH IF I DO NOT BELIEVE AND PRACTICE THE FOLLOWING MESSAGE OF ALLAH..17:23-24 ..........I SHOULD FILFIL THE NEEDS OF THE PARENTS BEAUTIFULLY...I WILL NEVER SHOW EXPRESSION OF ANGER...KINDNESS AND GOODNESS TO PARENTS MUST BE UPHELP EVEN IN DIFFICULT RELATIONSHIP....ONE SHOULD NEVER BE UNDULY DIFFICULT WITH PARENTS NOR SPEAK / WORD TO THEM IN A HARSH / CONTEMPT / DISHONOUR MANNER WHETHER THEY ARE YOUNG OR ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY ARE OF ADVANCED AGE...WE SHOULD DUA / PRAY BOTH OF THEM IN EVERY SALAAH / PRAYER..I APPRECIATE WHICH MY PARENTS HAS DONE FOR ME...I WILL NEVER SPEAK (أُفٍّ DISHONOUR) INFRONT OF MY PARENTS..WE DO OUR BEST TO RESPECT OUR PARENTS, HONOUR THEM, BE KIND TO THEM, ASSIST THEM,GIVE PRESENTS,SUPPORT THEM FINANCIALLY & PLEASE THEM...ALLAH IS TEACHING ME,HOW I SHOULD MAINTAIN RELATIOSHIP WITH MY PARENTS with.ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY HAVE REACHED OLD AGE..
Posted on: Sat, 27 Dec 2014 10:41:36 +0000