If only you want Marriage is a BIG thing. Please spell BIG with capital letters next time. Most if not all of you want to get married. But you are acting like this is all Hollywood. Well I am gonna be honest with you. Guys out there are not dragging feet or just want to sleep with you and simply wasting your time. Man out there want to get married. But you are delaying the process, you are taking serious things very light and you forget the most important things in life. Some of you are busy partying and eating your youth… leya bothozeha. And besides some of you have strong blood you don’t bothoka quick. But its not easy for a man to face his parent, Elders and most of all… mom and tell them he is taking someone to be a wife. This is the biggest step any guy will ever take in their lives. Now tell me you think your man will introduce you as wife to a family of 100 and take pride in a person that has loose strings hanging from their skin for every man and boy to grab? NO. Its hard making a decision to marry… there are so many things to consider. And if you guys ddnt know… the main factor of marriage is divorce. NO MAN WANTS THAT. Its level of embarrassment is actually equivalent to being displayed naked in public. We take that in to consideration… its not easy. A humble woman is wat we need. We don’t want a woman who is always turning up. Yes we have our flaws, worse even… but every man out there becomes a child to their wife. And with our flaws we need a person to take us in and protect our hearts. Other men cheat not coz they are just like that but because, they live with a fear that their women is cheating. Ofcoz its immature to not consult and get facts right, but really who is going to admit they are cheating. And another thing you guys are forgetting is the Marriage isn’t easy and to have a successful marriage you need to lose certain things about you. I hear you say yeah it ddnt work out.. how the hell are you just gonna be happy nje? You weren’t even happy kini… la uvelele khona, yazi you guys are unfair… somethings you adjust to and make work. Some women out there are saying it ddnt work out and their married AGAIN, and they are pretending its working out, when its exactly the same as the previous marriage. Now they are just stuck coz they can do what they did initially, umuntu sekaya bambezela NJEEEEEE. This is an exercise you should have done with the first person to avoid ama Crayons… look now. How the hell is a person not raised by your mom gonna keep you smiling everyday? Somedays they will make you cry. But you just need to tell yourself you are married. And Yes don’t allow nonsense - this is where you need to draw the line and tell your man off and make him sleep on the couch in a house he worked hard to build, he will learn but you don’t just give up. People that advise you to give up, won’t be there when you are 50 years old, but your husband will. Never let people whose placements in your lives is temporary push you to making permanent decisions. Look at a bigger picture you are not building a marriage to look hot with your hubby at some stupid red carpet event, you are building it to be happy watching TV at a Holiday destination hotel that your beautiful daughter/son paid for… to say THANK YOU for being great parents
Posted on: Mon, 12 Jan 2015 19:40:25 +0000
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