If you can not forgive someone you have to really question why you are keeping the hurt. Is it to never be hurt again; or has become such a source of conversation and entertainment letting it go would be like losing an old friend. Personally after i was emotionally scarred some years ago; I was so hurt I talked about it alll the time! At first i thought i was justified; and by venting I was "purging". Then it hit me; Im promoting my pain so much; no one is litsening to offer help, prayer, or even sympathizing with me they are just being entertained by the drama. So I took years off; not mentioning it or the person. To my surprise I missed it; I actually had seperation feelings towards it. Then revelation came: Unforgiveness is like a growth on the inside a tumor that feeds off what you give it; and it grows and grows; if youre not careful it will become even more noticable than you. So you have to come to terms with it and remove it! You are greater than your bitterness, you are better than your misery; and however hard it may be LET GO(intentionally), and LET GOD(honestly). I have not spoke of that situation in years except when the people i had made it known to asked me how i was dealing with it! The other day the person asked for forgiveness; and it was the first time in a long time I was reminded about that pain. It was easy to forgive; because that tumor I created is now just a little scar; a reminder that Ive been healed and set free from all of it. #BeHealed. #StayHealed #ItsAprocess
Posted on: Fri, 05 Jul 2013 15:03:22 +0000
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