If you cannot be yourself around someone but you want them to be the one you want to be with, then this is the quickest way to losing yourself. We can be great at nurturing and loving ourselves in so many ways and then we fall in love and we cant seem to get it right. Love triggers many old abandonment wounds and fears and it is these fears which either direct us to the wrong people or they create us to be an insecure person we do not wan to be. If it is in relationships where you struggle to love yourself then this is where your work is. If love is bringing out negative or destructive patterns in you then this is simply a sign of where you need to learn and grow. This is another level and layer of self-love. You need to take care of you and your self-worth before that of someone else. The moment you place your relationship before yourself is when all the negative patterns arise. It is your job to take of you for them and their job to take care of them for you. If you give too much, too easily and you give to keep then you end up in insecurity and feeling unappreciated. Learn to receive. Learn to stop controlling. Learn to follow, Learn that you are lovable without having to audition and perform all the time. Love yourself. You do not have to try so hard.
Posted on: Sun, 21 Dec 2014 12:00:01 +0000
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