If you know deep in your own heart, that you want to be a good person, do right towards others and yourself, have self reserve towards mistakes you make, and like to see other people happy while you are curious to their being and expression; then why be caught up in other peoples efforts to direct your thought and choices in life based on what they think of you or themselves? Other peoples choices over the direction and choices you make in your own life, often come in tandem with preconceived ideas about you, ideas about your potential to make mistakes versus make good out of learning... If every body makes mistakes ,as every body does, doesnt it seem like being cheated out of making your own mistakes and learning from them? I respect those who cant afford the mistakes i may cost them and so should we all... A worker Working on another mans property, and the boss was so hard on the workers for their inexperience and tendency to make mistakes that would cost his property damage.. It was funny to see him work his property to show the right way yet end up doing damage to the car of the inexperienced worker who would no longer be able to make it to work to earn a living to fix his car nor gain experience to learn the work skills... We will learn from each other any way, so just go about your ways and choices and you will find it innately includes learning from other people and their experiences.. Learning from others doesnt have to be at the expense of learning from your own experiences.. People can spend so much time in overly sanitary school experience and it costs them time to be within their own experiences and choices... I have learned quite a bit from peoples stories and examples and was far from really understanding until i experienced the real life lesson for myself.. A fire is best left untouched.. Why? Because it is hot.. What is hot until you have touched hot to know hot first hand, burnt hand... And still they will come saying you see, i told you it was hot.. When after all, nothing told you fire was hot any clearer than fire itself and only then did the word hot come to proper meaning regardless of how many times they tried to define it for you before hand, hand in fire... Some things are best left untouched ,like the burn of negligent homocide as in wreck-less drunk driver or sober yet texting while driving... But it will happen and i rather learn it from someones past mistake than make it another mistake all over again ,for myself.. There is an aspect of lack of real experience ,that is attributed to making such deadly mistakes anyway.. having more of our own experience is always better in the long run than a handful of other peoples stories regimented upon us... Value your own experiences and fear not your mistakes nor own the regrets of others mistakes..Be willing to learn from other peoples mistakes as if it were your own, if you have the prerequisite to empathize with their experience.. The prerequisite to empathy is often having had the same experience or similar for yourself.. But a significant aspect of empathy is instinctive... Survival instinct and preservation of others lives, that comes in regardless of experience.. Often its learned from further experience, that a mistake was never a mistake in the first place, it was the conjuring of the mind in the state of lacking further experience and freedom, because of fear and control by other people from a heritage of fear and inexperience with the nature of perception.. Its one thing to have lots of experience perceiving, its another thing to have experience understanding the nature of perception between stories to actual experience or actual experience to story... stories allow the mind to paint a picture, but experience allows the mind to mingle with reality.. I have heard it said you dont see reality through your senses, you see what you are through your senses.. Thats true just as much as its true that what we are is a part of reality designed to look itself in the mirror.. We are always looking at reality even if seeing only ourselves, because we are realitys reflection and echo.. we take it in and put it out...Part of the great cycle... People who dont believe it possible to see reality, dont believe they are a reflection of reality.. Then they must not be real and neither is their opinion on the perception of reality... But they believe their doubt in self reality is real.. Yet thats a morsel of reality like a mustard seed waiting to grow into the full extent of all things being reality... Perception is full of imagination and mirages, but in the scope of all reality, even where we are mistaken and misjudging, there is the potential in a place at a time ,where everything imagined ,wrong or right, daydream or methodical science ,can find a manifestation in reality... The most absurd and impossible things have come into reality/being.. There is an infinity of more waiting to do the same... For better or worse, a new marriage to reality, born of an old marriage to reality, destined to give birth to more reality to be married to reality further into the cycle of reality upon itself, within itself all by itself and split arrayed every which way possible including the way that lets it look back upon itself, alive and thinking I am..
Posted on: Sun, 07 Dec 2014 07:59:56 +0000
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