Im writting this not to start trouble or stir up misinterpretation. I only feel it necessary to get my view point out and clear the air as it where because my voice has rarely been heard in public to this extant and after this I will have said my peace. I have always seemed to be the center of someones jaw flapping but lately I have been hearing a lot about people telling others to stay away from me and such things. People talk shit...that is the natural order of any social group. I know that there are many who have had false/misunderstood information told to them about me. I get it. A year ago I may have been just as in it, fighting back, trying to change peoples pre conceived notions of me. Ive been through quite a lot in this past year and I have learned something great. It is not your job to CHANGE peoples opinions about you. They will always have their opinions, no matter what you do. It is your job to PROVE them wrong. At first it may seem to be the same thing, but it is not. To change something you actively work to change...to PROVE you do not give into the game, you just do. It is a type of game after all that has been going on since the beginning of time. Whether it be due to jealousy, insecurities, ego or just down right lack of humility. Do not feed the fire. I have/ still have a stigma placed upon my head in this scene Im sure, but it is not my job nor priority to change peoples opinion of me, everyone is entitled and will think as they wish. Those that I am close to and know me well have always had my back and know that the negative things said are far from the truth. The ONLY thing that I ask is if you have a problem with me or have been told something negative about me, think of the source or reason its coming from... I guarantee when you get down to it, it really is not as it seems. Ive become friends with many that I was warned about, later to find there was some dilutional drama beneath the surface. People, we are not in high school anymore, Im pretty sure most of you are trying to do the same thing I am, have fun and do what I enjoy to make the most out of life. I will also never apologize for standing up for myself, I have made enemies this way. I will not stand down when my friends are being taken advantage of or when the truth should be spoken. That is where I draw the line. Yes I have made enemies this way, but I do not regret it or apologize. Or sometimes it has probably been something that I said or did was taken the wrong way and instead of addressing the issue it was made into a monster. I dont expect to be best friends with everyone, but I can respect a person that will come to me with an issue instead of slack jawing behind my back. I try to keep myself as far from drama as possible, Im not interested in petty high school social whos better then who drama so please if you dont like me and dont want to know me on a real level than just dont talk to me. Its pretty simple. If you do great! Im all open for new connections. People who have so much time to meddle in other peoples lives certainly need to reevaluate their priorities. But in the end I digress. Remember, people with small minds have big mouths...
Posted on: Sat, 20 Sep 2014 20:14:55 +0000
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