In all matters it is good to be kind and giving. However, when you gave and gave for years and you are dealing with humans that are a poor example of humanity- perhaps it is time to respond with their language. Lessons learned the hard way... :) Isnt it rude that my kids were told that their entire mothers family is crazy? Its funny when crazy calls others crazy... Another one all chassidish people have no middos. I am very upset that my children had to hear such vile stereotyped bigotry. I grew up chassidish and while I will be the first to say that chassidim are flawed, I will also say that humanity is flawed. Every single society, community, ethnic group and religious level and religions have their issues. I was hurt by chassidim and I was hurt by some modern orthodox people. Does that make me think that all of them are bad? No way! I have met the kindest chassidishe people. I have met the kindest litvish people. I have met the kindest modern orthodox people. I have met the kindest sefardim. I have met the kindest conservative Jews. I have met the kindest reform Jews. I have met the kindest secular or unaffiliated Jews. I have met the kindest Gentiles. All groups have both good and bad and I feel blessed to have met many good people from all walks of life whom I am proud to call my friends. I am also proud to say that although I decided not to be chassidish, I come from a very chassidish home. My entire extended family from all sides are chassidish and in fact I am rebbish... Yup... I have yichus from here to the moon and back but that doesnt make me a better person. I as an individual have to be the best I can be with the life circumstances that HaShem placed me in. You would be shocked to know of the amount of chessed my chassidishe cousin from Bnai Brak does.... All in a quiet manner... With no honors or fanfare and amidst a life of sheer suffering. I would like to tell that bigot that several weeks ago I volunteered in Columbia Presbytarian Hospital for an entire Shabbos. By 4pm I needed a break from all the suffering that permeated through the hospital air. So I went to the bikur cholim room. Do you know who built and funds that room that served as a safe haven for me and many yidden from all walks of life? Chessed 24/7- an organization from New Square!!! Yes, as chassidish as it gets. For one hour a bunch of us sat there and laughed amidst so much pain. For one hour we were able to feel like family although we didnt know each other. For one hour people kept streaming in and out getting food that was also sent there from Satmar Bikur cholim!!! For one hour, we all became matchmakers and more than that we were one family. Yes, chassidim may be flawed and they may not like my long jean skirt or short one for that matter but to say that all chassidim have no middos is a reflection of YOU!! Kol haposel bmumo posel!!! You define that Chazal to a T. One who finds flaws in others, the flaws lie within him. The accuser sees it in others since others serve as a mirror of himself. Furthermore, that same someone told my children that their mother will not get olam Habah and that she should be killed because she arrested their father and thats what happens to someone that arrests another yid. Really? Really? Thats what you tell two young children? How low will you go? Her family is crazy. Her religious sect has no middos and she will not get olam Habah and she should be killed Wow. This is the second death threat I received from the same person. But this is worse than the first because this was sent as a message through my children. Now if I will be arrested for violating my first amendment right which is freedom of speech, I will never regret writing this post. This post should serve as an example of what a Jewish person should never tell children about their own mother!!! Forget about a Jewish person! No person should ever talk this way to a child about his/ her own mother!!! I write this on erev Yom Kippur Katan of Rosh Chodesh Tammuz as a service to society. The above statements are direct statements of sinas chinam- baseless hatred! Maybe tell the children what an eishes chayil their mother was!! I wish my sons marry wives that have my middos and will treat them the way I treated both my ex husbands!!!! I do practice what I preach which is why every night I do NOT go to sleep without saying the forgiveness prayer which states that I forgive everyone that has ever hurt me until this moment. Do you know how many tears I shed when saying that tefilla? Begging HaShem to help me forgive people that are intent on making my life a living hell? And each night I say hareini moichel... I forgive... Youre such a big talker to innocent children- why dont you try overcoming YOUR middos??? Oh I forgot... You dont have any because you also originate from chassidim.... Remember??? I forgive this person for hurting me but I can not forgive this person for hurting my children. When you say such things about a childs mother you are essentially saying it about the child. I gave birth to these children. They are a direct reflection of me. And guess what? I wish they grow up to become chassidish!!! That would be the sweetest revenge... Lol... Vhashiv leiv Banim al Avos.... May the childrens heart return to the roots of their parents.... Your ancestors were ALL chassidish!!!!! Too bad you cant change that fact. Maybe my sons may even want to open a shul and become a Rebbe.... After all they have plenty of yichus... Whatever level of religion they choose, I will always love them. My love for them is not intertwined with my religious beliefs. I pray that you have a refuah shelaima bkarov!!!
Posted on: Fri, 27 Jun 2014 01:03:09 +0000
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