In forgiveness between people, acknowledge the wrong act, apologize sincerely, compensate the injured person if possible and agree to never do it again. Wrongs are sometimes committed by both parties. Be the first to ask for forgiveness. If we cruelly fail to forgive, we harm ourselves. Our sages say we are judged by G-d the way we judge others. Forgiveness is often a process. The first level stops thoughts of revenge and wishing bad things on the person who wronged us. The next level lets go of anger and resentment. The final level works toward restoring the relationship. The final level may not be reached. When someone asks for forgiveness and says they will never do the same wrong again, one is encouraged to at least get the first level. According to the sages, its never too late to ask for forgiveness, even after someone has died.
Posted on: Sun, 27 Apr 2014 15:02:15 +0000
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