Inbox: Can I get a pp please? Me and my partner have been together for just over 5 years now, and we definitely have a rocky relationship. I dont really want just leave comments as I still really want to work at our relationship as we have 2 beautiful boys together. A friend of mine recently said to me that I need to allow him to have his space and to just be happy about him having his space, and that will help as he wont feel like I resent him for having his space. Tbh I dont resent his space though I do feel it is very unfair that he walks in and out of our house and our relationship as and when he seems to feel like it. Yet I can plan things month in advance, he says he will have our boys, then lets me down at the last minute. I am not entirely blameless either as I do get frustrated with this, but basically my friend said that I should just bite my tongue and deal with it for a month or 2 and it will get better. I really dont see why I should become a door mat and put up with his behaviour, is his proper support for me and the boys really too much to ask? Along with him pulling his weight with our children abit more? I get them up and dressed, tidy house do pretty much all house work aswell as working part time, he MAY do breakfast/ tea if he feels like it, but never properly washes up, he will put the washing machine on, but rarely does he make sure it actually has a load in it, then just dumps it all on my bedroom floor, half damp. He currently works part time for his parents and many day can set his own hours, at least when it suits him. Sorry it seems abit of a rant, but everytime I try to tell him how I feel he just walks out, wont discuss anything. How do I get him to see that we need to communicate and that saying how I feel is not necessarily meant as me having a go, but a more healthy not bottling it up thing? Thanks! X Karrie x
Posted on: Tue, 25 Nov 2014 12:04:27 +0000
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