Insert 120 Iya ne it was now Thandi, I didnt understand now, why her, what was happening, days passed and she wasnt even calling me. Her friend Zan, kept on checking me, I think she was worried. On a certain Tuesday night she called me wathi ucela mangineskhathi ngize kwakhe. Oh ohkey, I told her I would see her nge weekend. Zan: ohkey its fine Me: sure, aish Im tired, taken three days leave Zan: can you come tomorrow, I wanna talk business with you, for the whole three days. Please come Me: ohk I was suprised, but she offered to even come fetch me. UZan was originally Thandis friend, she was married, two kids and her husband was staying in phalaborwa, due to work. He only came month ends. Ohkey. I have heard Thandi amkhuluma kabi, the way alamba ngakhona, the way uhusband angasezi ekhaya, they way the husband cheats, she also told me ukuthi the husband stays with another woman khona lapho. Na the way banomona ngaye noBhuti. Ohkey masifika, during that three days what she told me changed me. Zan: I have been saving this with me for a while now, and I thought you will see this kodwa ngikubone uzifaka shiqi kulomuntu, and the last time you were here I saw ukuthi theres troouble in paradise but again, ngathula. Kodwa I have decided to tell you anyway. 1) the friend you call a friend doesnt love you, she has done things to you, and said things about you, its not even funny 2)your relationship with Lucky, it was her, she told him you are a whore. 3)while you were in a relationship noNhlanhla, she told me she hates Nhlanhla so much. She doesnt want him, I asked why because she is married, wathi nje, if you marry Nhlanhla you will be better than her. Then she continued and borrowed money from Nhlanhla, when her child was in hospital, Nhlannhla gave them 8000 under your name Me: woh! Woh! Woh! How come I dont know that? I was never told nje? Zan: thats the reason things ended between you. Me: Tjo! Mara why? Zen: then there was Menzi, loyo uze ngo 180 speed limit, wavele washesha, wathi unenculaza. She is the reason behind your split. Me: iyo yo yo? I was crying, how can she? She waited for me ukuthi ngithule. Zan: Im sorry but I owe it to tell you. Now bekahamba atshela abantu that you are staying Im her house but you dont wanna pay rent? She said you shall never marry, never drive a car, never even. Get a Licence. You all got it by mistake. When your car got an accident she was celebrating, your friend. You bought her things and she would say usazothenga unemali eningi, and akazi ukuyisebenzisa, so thina sizoyisebenzisa your friend. Me: Tjo! Zan: she had you under control all this time I dont know how you got out,she told me she wants to sray with you in order to monitor you. You must just thank your Pastor, he is the reason you out there. Otherwise bekazogcina akubulala. Me: what? Kusho ukuthi even when she said ufuna mangishada ngihlale next door nakwakhe was so that she can monitor and control me? Zan: yes, with uMenzi, he wasnt a strong man enough, he was willing to marry you but after seeing that wena uthanda uThandi more than anything he decided to believe Thandis story. Me: nami bengibona ukuthi ngathi abathandani, because Thandi felt like Menzi is too much controling, ngoba I used to jumpp whenever he asked me to,Tjo!!!!!!!! Zan: her mother made her the person she is and uhlale wazi that everything they do, they do together as a team, and you were their project, they had you under their pulm. I was speechless How does someone hate you like this? Mara lena inzima,she wanted me to herself. Ngoba she saw that angiweli phansi, umsebenzi ngivele ngiwuthole nje. Zan open all the dirty laundry of my so called friend. Bekathe noBaba wasnt staying ekhaya, uhlala nomunye umfazi.what? Ubabami? Nomunye umfazi? Tjo! Yazi we were talking about the same person I was protecting everyday, her marriage I made sure it was intact, amahlazo wabo, bengiwavala. Bekungeke uzwe nangelanga elilodwa ngikhuluma bad things about her. But she was able to destroy me. I cried everytime and she was looking at me and elbaing, why? I cried fo Lucky,weza wangithuthsa. Wenza ngathi she loves me. I nearly died, yena ngapha bekathuthela uLucky? I met uNhlanhla, and she used to communicate noNhlanhla kanti umtshela how dirty I was? Who wouldnt believe her, my friend my other half. Eworse is taking money from Nhlanhla, phela imali yamalobolo leyo. Eyangiqeda was that, uThandi cheated for the husband with his ex, and aparently he is the father kamntwana, Zan wase athi, I think your friend has AIDS that explains all his miscarriages and because phela wena youve been sleeping with all men lkodwa awunayo? Me: nakho ke. So by telling people that you have it, it easies her conscious? Zan: ngizothini? Iya eyakamenzi, what did she do? I was thinking ukuthi she planned all of this and it pleases her that all her plans succeeded. Iyo! Bathi you shouldnt share everything with your friend. Who could have thought? Saturday ngaya kuPastor and mangifika Pastor: now you know Me: ngavela ngakhala Pastor: he reveals to redeem, you are free the devil is a liar, I knew someone will tell you all, in your language so that it may enter in you that your friend is your liar, she set bouNdries in your life, she set limitations in your life. Well guess what? ShE didnt know that you are above failure, above success, above limitations, above hindrances. You have been given power and authority to traple upon seArpents and scorpions. Forget about her, you have a very glowing bright future, leave her. We prayed and I went home. JB naye wafika wangigcwalisela ukuthi while in durban ushilo wathi akamfuni umfundisi wena umupha yonke imali yakho. Me: oh Thandi my ex-friend. Wuye lo! Yes and she told me that the husband was cheating with all women and I think Thandi found out and that is why athe abuye. Tjo, kanti egoli kunje. I mourned my friendship noThandi, I asked for God to let me forget her, and I also forgiven her, but because God has warned me against her, I never wanted to see her again. My life with Thandi was over and out. She used me for her own benefit I worte this in our memory: Today will be my last and today will be my first The last time you lie to me The first time Ive moved so far from you The last time I will wait for you to change The first time I know for sure I can survive without you The last time you apologize for your mis-lead ways The first time I lead my life in a way that I want The last time I will worry if you are alright The first time I only think aboUt me Today is the last day our friendship survived Tomorrow Ill spare a thought and regret this day arrived Today is my last my last time I leave under your spell today is my first time I leave under my spell It is my last time I leave under your limitations, boundries and curses. My firsy time to spread my wings and fly high without limitations, boundries and have a good success I wish you well and I hope youre happy but I cant carry on with you being so dappy. That is your morning glory, then its church, asambeni somdumisa........then maybe one nyana later. Please ngicela ningibekezele, its just one more week then Ill have your undivided attention
Posted on: Sun, 05 Oct 2014 04:22:56 +0000
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